With nothing to lose and zero expectation that I'd get a response, I commented 'Brooklyn girl', and then went to sleep.
I found myself thinking that I fit the description: I live in Brooklyn I'm femme. The TikTok, which had thousands of likes and comments, left me feeling intrigued. On one of my nightly FYP scrolls, I was recently swept up by one - a thirsty TikTok of a blonde, more masculine-presenting queer woman - using the ~I'm so shy, I'm so shy~ audio with a text overlay that read: 'i'm so shy i hope tiktok doesn't put this on bottom femme tok that would be bad 🤥' with a caption that said 'if you're in brooklyn, let's hang 🌷' I'd be lying if I said that the thirst traps don't sometimes catch my eye.